Amazing List Of 90 Positive Things To Say To Your Child

“One kind word can change someone’s entire day.” Well is this not true in our case too? If someone speaks nicely to us we feel amazing. Don’t we? A few gentle and kind words, if they can make us feel so better. Also, children are no different. They are tiny human beings. Kind and gentle words with children go a long way. Speaking a few amazing words to them everyday can make a huge difference in their personality. Saying positive things to your child can change their moods, boost their confidence , and enhance their morale. More importantly, it can help tremendously with a child’s emotional development. After all, parents are the most important people for the children (at least until they become teenagers!! ;p). Parents’ words and the way they speak makes a lot of difference in children’s lives.

In today’s world all we hear around is mostly no or some negative things. However, we can help them make this world a safe, beautiful and happy place again. We need to raise children in a way that they will spread this positivity and kindness into the world around them. All you can do to empower them with positivity, gentleness, kindness is to practice all these with them. Obviously, I believe happy children become happy adults. I am sure you do too!

90 Positive things to say to your child everyday

“The best way to make children good is to make them happy.”

– Oscar Wilde

List of Positive Things To Say To Your Child

Try to say at least a few of these positive things to your child everyday. These positive words of encouragement can have a long lasting effect on your child.

  1. I love you my baby. 
  2. I love hugging you. 
  3. You will always be most important to me. 
  4. I love to see you happy.
  5. I like you. 
  6. You are an amazing person. 
  7. I like your personality. 
  8. I love the way you speak and express your opinion.
  9. It is so beautiful that you want to take care of me. 
  10. I love listening to you talk
  11. I enjoy having a conversation with you.
  12. You have such brilliant ideas.
  13. I am happy that you always try your best
  14. Your presence adds happiness to the family
  15. We are extremely happy to be your mom and dad.
  16. You are so warm and compassionate. 
  17. I love how you deal with things when you are angry
  18. I feel grateful for you.
  19. You are so creative and innovative. 
  20. Spending time with you makes me happy and relaxed. 
  21. I am so grateful that you helped me.
  22. I can see that you are sad and I want to help you. 
  23. You can do everything you put your mind to. 
  24. I love your unique ideas. 
  25.  I will always believe in you. 
  26. Your hug helps me feel better.
  27. I am proud of you.
  28. You should be really proud of yourself. 
  29. We will do what you want to do. 
  30. Are you happy? 
  31. I am sorry. 
  32. Your smile lights up the whole house. 
  33. I love to hear your ideas on this. 
  34. You are the best gift I have received from God until now. 
  35. You are right. 
  36. I am sorry that I yelled at you. 
  37. Please forgive me. 
  38. I forgive you. 
  39. You are very special to us. 
  40. It is okay if you want to do something different. 
  41. You need not be perfect. 
  42. I might not like you at times; But I will always love you. 
  43. I respect your choices. 
  44. It is amazing how you treat everyone so gently. 
  45. I appreciate your efforts. 
  46. I am happy that you tried. 
  47. Everything is possible. 
  48. I love answering your questions. 
  49. I love your curiosity.
  50. You are capable of doing great things. 
  51. Be happy to be yourself. 
  52. Always love yourself first.
  53. It is not selfish to think about yourself first. 
  54. Never give up. Take a break and rest if necessary. 
  55. I can never stop loving you. 
  56. Everybody is different just like you and me. 
  57. I trust you. 
  58. I look forward to playing with you everyday.
  59.  More importantly, everything can be resolved. 
  60. You are incredible.
  61. Your will power and determination is amazing.
  62. You are worth everything and much more.
  63. I would love to try it your way this time. 
  64. I love it that you are giving me attention. 
  65. You can do anything you put your mind to. 
  66. You are an amazing friend.
  67. Seeing you happy makes my heart happy and full.
  68. You are so funny and make everything funny.
  69. You can find your happiness inside you. 
  70. If you are happy, everything will be better and feel better. 
  71. I love learning new things from you. 
  72. I love to listen to how your day went by.
  73. You are a very important part of our family. It wouldn’t be the same without you. 
  74. Your energy is so contagious. 
  75. Certainly, you make me want to become a child again. 
  76. Playing with you is so much fun. 
  77. Your smile is amazing. It makes me want to be smiling all the time. 
  78. You are my teacher too.
  79. Your presence makes everything joyful. 
  80. Most of the time I will be around to hold you if you fall. 
  81. I will always be there whenever you need me. 
  82. A person’s a person no matter how small! – Dr. Seuss
  83. You are so brave and strong. 
  84. No one can make you feel inferior without your permission. Not even me. 
  85. Most importantly, it is okay. We can fix this.
  86. I am here if you need to talk about it.
  87. I will always be there for you if you need to rest for a while.
  88. Can you show me or tell me what you need?
  89.  Firstly, I will never judge you. Secondly, I will always support you. 
  90. YES! Let’s do it.

Your words as a parent have great power. Use them to support and Inspire. ”


Firstly, you have a huge influence in your child’s life. If you use the right statements at the right time then you might see a gradual decrease in whining and tantrums as well. Consequently, kindly make sure you use this influence in a positive and encouraging way towards your child. However, spreading this kind of information that you come across is equally important. Educate your friends and relatives about speaking gently with the child, teaching children good manners and the importance of saying positive things to your child everyday.

Therefore, What will you say to your child today?

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  1. Nusarat salim momin
    Nusarat salim momin

    Such a amazing list ramya… like all the points you share…

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